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66. Two reasons to gossip — 11 Comments

  1. Gossiping is deeply ingrained in our culture… Its almost like an energy release fr the two people involved.
    The victim is unaware what’s being said about them and as you say can’t defend themselves….
    If only we knew what a destructive coping mechanism it is we would not resort to it..I feel the Mir Method could help reduce it and deter society – young and old from resorting to such a’backbiting release method’.

  2. Hello dear people , the interesting thing is when somebody wants to involve you in listening to their gossip to say for example I m not interested in this story…neutral ..I’m interested in you..The MIR-Method has caused some important changes in my life ….Thank you !!!!

  3. Gossiping is negative energy and I was taught if you can not say something nice, do not say anything. Going with the premise of do no harm! MIR-Method reinforces this and helps keep inner balance.

  4. Dear Mireille!

    My neighbours(sadly they are also my relatives) make my life miserable they gossip about my family,slander us and they do it because of malice.They judge our hard situation because they live in luxury.They dont have any kind of empathy guess they have narcissistic personality disorder.Im very isolated. I dont want to get hurt with their words.I hate my life and Im very desperate.I Dont want to move on because of them.I feel the negative energy from them in our house.
    I know that we are cursed even our house and the place where we live.Im so unfortunate.I dont know how to change the situation .It would be better not to see them anymore.How can the MIR-Method help in this situation?


    • Dear Maria,
      If you start using the MIR-Method, you will subconsciously work on this situation. You will detach yourself from your neighbours and their energy. You will become stronger, so negative energy won’t touch you as much. And the energy in your house will clear up. And maybe, maybe you will change houses, or they will.
      There will be a solution to this problem. Usually the solution will come from inside of you. Either you will make peace with it or their will be changes. Please note that it can be a matter of months before everything has changed or settled.
      Good luck and let me know how you are doing! Wishing you all the comforting and strength you need!
      Mireille Mettes

  5. I am a member of the Baha’i Faith. Backbiting and Gossip is forbidden.
    It is so negative and destructive. It harms the two people who are talking and also the person that they are talking about! It affects their soul.
    The negative energy is not good for them or the entire planet.

    • Dear Sheila,
      Thank you for letting me know! And how wonderful that your group has this so concrete in it’s ways! Thank you for the example you set all together!
      Greetings, Mireille Mettes

  6. This is very wise,I do my best not to gossip and try to defend the person
    When I hear unkind words,but it is great for us all to be reminded.
    Thank you.

    • Dear Millie,
      Thank you for responding. Yes, I think it is even the basis of why many women don’t grow as much as they could. I am thinking about making a video about it.
      Greetings! Mireille

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