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32. The Cinderella Complex — 4 Comments

  1. Dear Mireille!

    Is it important to add “attract the optimal partner” if you are single for a long time or it is not necessary ?I use the MIR-Method for 6 months now and the truth is that I still can not forget someone and it cause me so much pain.I can not move on with my life for years now.Which is weird for my family and its a shame.I dont know whats wrong with me.
    I also wonder and I dont really understand why does the MIR-Method work 19 months after doing it for 4 weeks?Will it take 19 months to clear negative things subconsciously?

    • Dear Zola,
      There is nothing wrong with you. You are just still ‘attached’ to your ex-partner. Just keep on doing the MIR-Method. With step 3 you detach yourself from your ex-partner, so you can go on again.

      No, it doesn’t take 19 months, but your body just continues working. However, I notice that when people use the MIR-Method much longer, they progress quicker!

      Yes, you can add the sentence you suggest, but always put it in front of the 9 steps! It is not really necessary, but it does help you focus on what you really want.

      I wish you lots of love AND a wonderful new partner!
      Mireille Mettes

  2. Hello dear,
    I wanted to tell you that I have aded in the end the important task for me: “attract the optimal partner” because I have been single for a while and since Im so independent its very difficult to find a equal partner for me.
    Thanks for the helpful 9 steps which Im doing with gratefulness

    • Dear Silvia,
      You can always add your own steps with the 9 steps. If you do, please state them as the very first step, not the last! I wish for you to find a wonderful partner who can love you, is independent like you and help you grow! When you do the MIR-Method with step 3 you will let go of the attachment to your parents, which will also help you make space for another person in your life. In step 4 ‘Clear meridians’ is also the Heart meridian. People who have a heart that is hurting, because somebody stepped on it, can have a blocked Heart meridian. If that is so, they find it hard to love someone again. So I am glad you do the MIR-Method and are willing to let someone into your life again! Let me know what happens! May you find great love again!
      With love,
      Mireille Mettes

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