When you feel like a loner in your parental family, different from the others, your path can be lonely. You are so different from them. And no, you’ve not been adopted. On the outside you look like them, but on the inside you differ from your parents, brothers and sisters making you feel like an outsider. Someone who doesn’t belong and who accidentally ended up in the wrong family.

High sensitivity

Many people, who are highly sensitive, suffer from this. They feel unheard, unseen and misunderstood. Simply being near your family costs a lot of energy. Later on as an adult when you have to visit birthdays or family gatherings on holidays, you dread it. What are you going to encounter this time? Who is now going to humiliate or reject you or treat you disrespectfully? And trickle home again, completely drained of energy.

MIR-Method and family

The MIR-Method sometimes has mysterious effects. You perform the 9 steps and deep within you, your self-healing begins. It makes you more self-aware, more powerful, you get more energy and you also strengthen your self-respect, self-worth and protective layer. This mainly happens with step 7 ‘Fulfil basic needs’. And what do you think happens when you respect yourself more, find yourself more valuable and can protect yourself better? Exactly, the visits to your parental family become easier… And… you will start to see who your real family is!

Your family is not your household

When you don’t feel at home in your parental family, you will look at it differently using the MIR-Method. Your self-worth will grow and you will start to notice that you feel more at ease with other people. You will notice that interactions with other people fulfil you more. That you feel safer with others. And who are those ‘others’? These are the people who could become your true family members. The ones you can really be yourself with in this life.

How do you recognise your real family?

Who are those family members? Look around you! Do you have a friend who supports you unconditionally? Who is always there for you, even if you haven’t spoken to her in months? Or do you have a friend who understands you, without having to say much? Do you have someone around you that makes you feel good, where you are recharged in energy upon leaving? Do you know someone who respects you, no matter what you do? Who is careful in what he/she says to you? There are usually only a few, but know that they could be your true family members.

MIR-Method family

It may sound odd, but I always see all MIRrors as a family. A group of people who are conscious of themselves and their surroundings. Who do their utmost to heal themselves and then bring positivity into the world. Where MIRrors come together, I often see connections being made. People find each other, connect with each other and possibly develop friendships for life. Would you like to become a part of the MIRror family? Then come to a MIR Method circle or MIR Method workshop. There you can find them! Good luck finding with each other!

And do you have someone around you who actually is your mother, father, sister or brother? Did you get to connect with new people through the MIR-Method? I’d love to hear from you! Write it below, thank you!

May you be happy with your new family members!
Greetings, Mireille

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