Not being able to forgive yourself is the most poisonous thing there is. Berating yourself, punishing yourself such as, “Nothing I do is good, it’s my fault”, “If I hadn’t been here, it would have gone well”, “If only I hadn’t been born”, “Sorry for my existence”. These are strong … Continue reading →
No one wants conflicts. Nobody wants to argue. And yet, they often happen. Is it a mistake in our DNA? Is it inherent to being human? Do there always have to be arguments and conflicts? Or can we rise above ourselves and solve conflicts? How do conflicts develop? It’s very … Continue reading →
“Your brother says that you broke this statue. Did you?” “No.” “Oh, come one, you always break things. Think again, did you let it fall by accident?” “There’s a ghost in my room!” “Oh, go to sleep, there’s nothing there!” Click, light on. “See, there’s nothing. Now go to sleep … Continue reading →
Being decisive, making decisions. Choosing one thing and letting the other go. Making a choice is not easy. We are afraid of making the wrong decision; afraid of losing something. And what will replace that? Am I doing the right thing? Is this the right decision? It can sometimes drive … Continue reading →
Recipe for holding onto a busy life: keeping balls in the air. Throw them high enough so you have enough time to keep the other balls in the air. Keep arms, back and shoulders in the same position. Make quick movements, use ultimate concentration and keep those balls from falling. … Continue reading →
The most beautiful moment in a person’s life is when you rediscover your own steering wheel! You are again in control of your life. You decide what happens. Sometimes you need to look deep within yourself, breaking down walls and pulling out the stinger. It’s like doing a lot of … Continue reading →
Many people snore without it bothering them, but it certainly bothers their partners! It can severely disrupt the partner’s sleep and in many relationships can lead to irritation. Snoring can cause a lot of noise, but the other kind, sleep apnea, causes stalled breathing after which the person suddenly starts … Continue reading →
Deep inside, we all know exactly what we want. We know exactly what we like and what we want to do. We know what is good for us and what isn’t. We know which people are good for us and which aren’t; which advice we should follow and which we … Continue reading →
One of the most invisible emotions is Shame. You can be embarrassed about some part of your body or about something you have done. You can feel this way for other people or for a group of people. It includes a lot of taboo, secrecy and keeping quiet. It can … Continue reading →
A walk around the block, in the woods or walking the Appalachian Trail. They are all especially good activities for your health. Even strolling through a mall or riding a bike contribute and probably in a different way than you would expect. The secret is in two places: the soles … Continue reading →
Do you recognize this? You prefer not traveling. If you are gone for a night, you toss and turn in that unfamiliar bed and are glad to get home again. Your favorite icon on your navigation system is “drive home”. These are all signs of homesickness. Besides that, some people … Continue reading →
* Cross out the one that doesn’t apply to you. It still surprises me how little people realize what they are saying. It is as though words don’t have any energy. As if they just roll off of you. We now know that words do have an impact on us. … Continue reading →
Do you get hurt easily, or quickly frustrated, irritated, or do you have fits of anger? What if this is your way of dealing with things? If you are the type of person who regularly has a sharp tongue, it is unpleasant not only for those around you, but also … Continue reading →
It is one of the most annoying problems a young person can have: blemishes or acne. Many adults continue to have blemishes, even long after puberty. They can develop through hormonal changes and allow facial skin to change into an unsettling vision of red or nasty bumps, filled with white … Continue reading →
It is possible to overcome your addiction with the MIR-Method. It takes a long time and you need to be really kind to yourself. Take your time to slowly but surely let go of your addiction. Don’t force yourself! Just let your body and subconscious tell you when the time … Continue reading →
One of the most often heard results of the MIR-Method is that people feel less anxiety and have more self-confidence! We have even already heard that phobias disappeared: fear of spiders, fear of heights and agoraphobia (fear of open spaces and/or public places). Fear and anxiety are actually weird emotions, … Continue reading →
