Do you have problems with your work, personal life or relationship and notice that one or more has improved because of the MIR-Method, or has even disappeared altogether? That’s great!

We’d like to hear from you about what has improved! Please answer these questions:
1. How long have you done the MIR-Method?
2. How did the MIR-Method help you and what changes did it bring to your life?

At the bottom of this page is a form, which you can use to report your results. By clicking on “End”, you’ll jump to the form.

Would you like to read more on this subject? Please read the articles Mireille Mettes wrote about the following subjects:
* let go, straighten up and throw away;
* clarify mission about your hobby;
* stressless choosing;
* letting go, the art of living;
* nightmares and clarifying mission;
* intuition.

If you have questions about using the MIR-Method, please look at the page Questions or get in touch with a MIR-Method coach. We don’t answer personal questions on this page.


Comments

Life Path (improvements in work, personal life, relationship, etc.) — 17 Comments

  1. I started with the MIR-Method yesterday, I’m wondering if I can treat earlier lives with it. This related to dealing with and retrieval of “talents”.
    After a session, decided that I will stroke my left hand with my right one in the morning and in the evening, my right hand with the left.
    for now…..warm hands.
    with friendly greeting, Emmy

    • Dear Emmy,
      Former lives are included in various steps: step 2, 3, 4, 7, 8 and 9. The best thing you can do is to continue with the MIR-Method and by doing so, allow your talents to unfold more quickly.
      Much happiness!
      Greetings, Mireille

  2. What I’m now noticing is that I very often heard someone say: “Are you moving again already? You’ve got another job? Have you got another boyfriend?” “You never seem to find contentment with your life, you’re constantly searching, you don’t know what you want!” etc., etc. I’ve always experienced these comments as being negative, as something bad, something that isn’t as it should be.
    I didn’t know myself then as well and thought that what I did wasn’t good, constantly changing.
    I notice that I become restless when I am tied to something, then I feel limited in my freedom, when I can go and do what I like I feel a kind of serenity, enjoyment, renewal, life, discovery……….!
    When I was 39, I had already been “tied” to a job for 10 years which made me feel totally unhappy, but everyone said: “You’re earning well, where can you get something like that? What do you want then?” etc., etc. And I began to think that I just had to accept it, that’s the way it was…..until my body gave up and I had a burnout. After 1 year, I went on a week’s vacation, after which I thought about what I would really like, because something HAD to change if I wanted to live and be happy again. Another job wasn’t an option because then I’d just go from one thing to the other.
    Suddenly I knew … “I have to get out of this situation completely”. And decided to leave my work and sell my house and move to another country.
    This was the best decision I ever made. Did a half-year of volunteer work in Central America and then travelled for a good year. When I returned to the Netherlands, I owned 2 suitcases and a car. My things were in storage. I lived temporarily all over the place. I loved it!!!
    After this period, I felt the need to have a place of my own and rented a house. After 4 years I felt tied down again and left my hometown in South-Limburg because I was allowing myself to be pressed into a mold again. Went to live in Amsterdam, loved it!!
    Two years ago I heard about the MIR-Method and, little by little, have gotten to know myself, how I am made and what I want in life!!!
    The remarks that I used to experience as negative I now understand that are made by “creatures of habit”, people who have some kind of fear of change …….. because then you know what you have, but don’t know what you’ll get!!!! This is, of course, fine, but it’s not who I am ……..! and there’s nothing wrong with that as long as it feels good to you!!
    I know now that I’m great the way I am and I know what makes me happy.
    Now, at 53, I’m going to move next Saturday for the 14th time, now to the eastern part of the country and I am so curious as to what will turn up on my path there. I am looking forward to it enormously and I feel completely “Alive”
    I am obviously and clearly an ADEVENTURER!!! Wonderful!!!

  3. I’m very pleased with the MIR-Method. I’m doing sports again and do volunteer work two mornings a week at the recycling company. This is great to me, thanks for the e-mails and tips, greetings from Apeldoorn from Tonia

  4. Hi Mireille,
    Since I’ve been doing the MIR-Method, I’ve been taking the most beautiful photos and often write short stories to go along with them. In the meantime, a good bit of “my work” has been published in newspapers, journals and magazines.
    I’ve had my own website for 3 weeks now. I built this myself. It’s a website with the most beautiful nature photos…..www.fotomarblo.nl
    It’s my mission to acquaint as many people on earth as possible with the wonderful nature that is given to us…..
    Take a look at my website and allow yourself to be amazed…..
    I am so glad that I can do the MIR-Method, because through it I’ve become a wonderful, strong and self-confident woman who has many talents and now allows these to be expressed….wonderful……I am a grateful and happy person!

  5. Can’t believe all that has happened, starting a month after I began the MIR-Method, each day a new leisure activity in which all of my interests “came together”, and a new love…and stronger health…yes…not a coincidence, I do the method faithfully, now once a week…it works really well!

  6. That’s funny, I’ve (after doing the MIR-Method) picked up an old hobby of mine, I’ve started knitting and crocheting again. It’s completely for relaxation and I work practically without patterns. The most beautiful things are the result and I enjoy it so much!!!

  7. A few months ago, after doing the MIR-Method, a sudden wave of creativity swept over me. I started knitting, crafting, tinkering; the flow of ideas didn’t end. When I was young, I was also always very creative but had lost that somewhat as an adult. Wonderful to be doing this again, this is what I was looking for!

  8. Dear Mireille,
    In my opinion you can only maintain good health when you are able to do what you really would like/must do. Thus, your mission. I see it as a condition for health, more than a result of it. What I’ve noticed since doing the MIR-Method is that my company is attracting more clients. The doubts about whether I was on the right path have disappeared through this.

  9. Two years ago I came into contact with the MIR-Method and have used it extensively. The funny thing is that I‘ve been able to play the flute now for the past 1 ½ years, after not playing it for 22 years. And I do it with great pleasure.

  10. I just come home from my second painting lesson, a hobby I haven’t done anything with for more than twenty years! Last week I was asked if I wanted to take these painting lessons. Wonderful! I also started my embroidery hobby again a few weeks ago after starting the MIR-Method three months ago.

  11. The first thing I noticed after doing the MIR-Method was that I slept better. Before this I woke up at least 4 times a night, after which I had trouble falling asleep again. And…I’ve started reading again. Unbelievable! Didn’t touch a book for a good year, too restless for it. Now I enjoy the silence around me once again while reading a good book. A wonderful feeling!

  12. I’ve been doing the MIR-Method for 2 months now and it quickly became clear to me (through my friend) that I wanted to do something that I had wanted for some time and that was my own reiki practice. I wanted that in 2005 already but always saw all kinds of obstacles such as what ifs… And 3 weeks ago I made the decision and just started and yesterday evening I had my first client (outside of family and friends). And because of a reorganization I became unnecessary at my work as of April 1st, found a job vacancy this week and just applied for it… peace has returned to body, spirit and soul!!
    This thanks to the MIR-Method and the encouragement of my friend!!

  13. The first time that I did the MIR-Method, together with the friend who recommended it to me, I immediately knew what my mission was. I had forgotten it and was so glad that I knew it again! I wish everyone such an “Aha!” experience – it doesn’t matter what it is. Then practiced for 4 weeks and my life has changed. Thanks!

  14. Cleaning up on the inside…has truly led to my beginning to clean up my house. I want to clear as much out as possible, create space …
    I’m full of new plans that I also carry out!
    I already had a good relationship with my parents, and yet, the tie has become even closer…. Beautiful, isn’t it! ?
    It’s as though the MIR-Method as moved me to do all of those things I’ve had in mind for a long time but kept postponing.
    It’s a wonderful feeling to have a major cleaning on the inside as well as on the outside.
    So yes, it does work, the MIR-Method!
    It has taken my life on a different path, a path that brings me in touch with myself more quickly. Thank you very much, Mireille !
    Sweet greetings,
    Hilde.

  15. Hello Mireille
    First of all, I think it’s great that there are still people in these times that share something beautiful like this for free. Thank you!
    I’ve been doing the MIR-Method for almost 4 weeks now. Especially at the beginning I had the feeling that I became cleaner on the inside. I also felt stronger to do what I want to do.
    I am grateful that I came across this.

  16. The MIR-Method has had an exceptional result for me. I was able to make the decision to go to another dentist (major restoration work) and to another hairdresser. Through this I look better and I feel very happy. I still worry about my high blood pressure, suffer from that. With the 9 steps I’m going to focus all my attention on that now.
    Till now, hearty thanks.
    Friendly greetings,
    Hinke

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